Wedding or stump grinding ?

[eggsarascal]

Stefan, did the job run over, or did you do an extra job on the way home for jfc ?

[R Mac]

You've let your wife down, embarrassed her in front of her colleagues, then come on here bragging about it for giggles and attention, under the pretext of asking for support.

 

My thought exactly, top man for standing up and saying it.

[fagus]

I think you should have gone to the wedding. Age mellows you. I was once going to be in the dog house missing a wedding by preserving a many season full appearance record for a football team. I was off the hook when the match was called off with frozen pitch :-)

[Stubby]

At the end of the day ...do you really love her ? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her ..? If yes , then you have some major sucking up to do . If not carry on as you are bud . Simples .

[Mat]

Christ, the bloke just did a bit of stump grinding ffs.

 

Some blokes mess their other halves about by

 

Sleeping about

Clubbing

Sloping off to the pub

Having entire second families

Drinking

Gambling.

Getting wasted.

 

He did a bit of work and gets a bunch of pompous priggs telling him he is a disgrace to humanity, his Mrs is going to leave him or sleep about, and he is going to get what he deserves,..... And that it will bad rather than good.

 

(Whilst at the same time, there is another thread running, whining about how kids can't work as perfectly as all of you lot)

 

Typical Arbtalk whitch hunts.

[Goaty]

How come Stefan only has 22 hrs in his day?

 

 

Even robo Stefan needs to break from work fully. He has a lady and needs to wash and eat.

[Mat]

No offence intended. Lol

[treequip]

Christ, the bloke just did a bit of stump grinding ffs.

 

Some blokes mess their other halves about by

 

Sleeping about

Clubbing

Sloping off to the pub

Having entire second families

Drinking

Gambling.

Getting wasted.

 

He did a bit of work and gets a bunch of pompous priggs telling him he is a disgrace to humanity, his Mrs is going to leave him or sleep about, and he is going to get what he deserves,..... And that it will bad rather than good.

 

(Whilst at the same time, there is another thread running, whining about how kids can't work as perfectly as all of you lot)

 

Typical Arbtalk whitch hunts.

 

Just to remind you he did ask for opinions and it seems the majority think a re appraisal of priorities might be in order

 

Need some moral support so I know I did the right thing.

[Mat]

Just to remind you he did ask for opinions and it seems the majority think a re appraisal of priorities might be in order

 

 

No he didn't, he asked for moral support.

 

Check out the first post.

[felixthelogchopper]

Christ, the bloke just did a bit of stump grinding ffs.

 

Some blokes mess their other halves about by

 

Sleeping about

Clubbing

Sloping off to the pub

Having entire second families

Drinking

Gambling.

Getting wasted.

 

He did a bit of work and gets a bunch of pompous priggs telling him he is a disgrace to humanity, his Mrs is going to leave him or sleep about, and he is going to get what he deserves,..... And that it will bad rather than good.

 

(Whilst at the same time, there is another thread running, whining about how kids can't work as perfectly as all of you lot)

 

Typical Arbtalk whitch hunts.

 

Have to disagree with you on this one, Mat. Stefan asked for views on his actions and people have given them, quite politely and restrainedly in most cases. Granted, he isn't betraying his fiancee's trust by having an affair or the like but he has shown a very real disregard for her feelings by showing her colleagues that she comes second to his work. Given that he has stated in previous threads that he would rather work than go on holiday with her, I don't think he has been maligned or bullied by the very comments he asked to receive. In fact, he has actually revelled in them. I hope for his sake that he takes them on board.