Depression

[Blindman873]

So sorry to hear, this is one of the hardest subjects to openly talk about. I have a few connections with this, both my brother and a lad I worked with in the past who then actually went on to work in Arb, struggled with this and did the silly thing. It's horrendous.

You don't know the power of just one daft little joke or a chance meeting with an old mate to help change things even if it's just for a few minutes.

There's actually a clip of a Jimmy Carr show where there's someone in the audience tells him that she's only there because of him, she'd stayed up one night after the family had gone to bed and she was going to do the silliest thing but found herself drinking and watching clips on YouTube, she found Jimmy's stuff and it made her laugh in a way like never before. She never went through with it and managed to get help the next day.

We've never met but more than happy to be an ear on the phone if you need it, genuinely.

 

[maybelateron]

Sorry to hear you are feeling so low Les. As others have said, you have made the first step by realising what is going on, opening up about it, and seeking help. I had a fairly severe depression 25yrs ago when I was still a full time GP. I certainly had suicidal thoughts, and I remember one day imagining our three young children and my wife at my funeral. The thought of this stopped me doing anything. I found that medication and seeing a good counsellor helped no end. Over the years I have tried to come off the medication but have concluded that I need to stay on it permanently. If you find that you just can't concentrate/think straight don't think you are dementing etc - with significant depression your whole mental functioning slows down, sleep disturbance, irritability etc until you are beginning to pick up.

I hope that with the right help you are soon feeling better. Best wishes, Charles

[Mark J]

Well done for talking about about it. 

The black dog is a bastard.

Believe it or not, these things seems to help a bit: 

Treatment - Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) - NHS

WWW.NHS.UK

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Read about the main treatments for seasonal affective disorder (SAD), including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), light therapy and antidepressants.

10 best SAD lamps to banish the winter blues, tried and tested

WWW.INDEPENDENT.CO.UK

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Mood-boosting light therapy can help to brighten the dreariest time of year

I'm not suggesting that SAD is the only cause for your malaise, but it's often a combination of things that kick things off. 

Stick with what your GP reckons. It can take a few weeks before anti-depressants kick in. 

Keep talking, and keep ahad!

[sime42]

This lot are good I believe. Normal blokes talking to normal blokes. 

 

ANDYSMANCLUB - It's Okay To Talk

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[Ty Korrigan]

8 hours ago, topchippyles said:

Merry christmas to you all guys i think i can say that now we are 3 weeks away.

 

I wanted to share this as been getting so down lately and chin wagging on here is always fun,

 

I know eggs suffers a lot with depression and i have looked for the thread but nothing comes up on my search.

 

The last couple of months i have been getting horrendous days even thinking about doing silly stuff. No matter how hard i try it will not shift and consumes my thoughts. 

 

I went to see my Gp a month ago and she put me on some happy pills but they do not seem to kick in as yet.

 

I just felt the need to share it as we suffer in silence and try to be strong. 

I've suffered depression on and off since I left school in 1986 though never diagnosed until I was in my thirties.

I do find a few days in the sun ☀️ transforms my mood.

A short break, cheap package holiday is an effective alternative medicine 💊 

I'll not take antidepressants again, not since 2004 at least.

It's been particularly grim here in the North of France recently and it manifests itself physically like a crushing pressure or negative radiation surrounding my very being.

Also sharing dark humour with strangers online helps.