Yes, of course. In retrospect it is a bit strong. But sometimes its not far from the truth.
This happened a few weeks ago.
I get a call . "Do you stock the such and such mower" to which I answer yes. So he comes out and looks at it, but does not like it. It had seemed suitable for his needs when he researched on the net, but he realised it was too small when he saw it. We discussed his needs, 'visited' his garden via Google Earth and measured his grass area. We then offered various machines until he settled on a particular model. He goes away to think.
Half an hour of my time and advice, stuff he could not get online.
He phones a few days later and spends another 20 minutes on the phone asking for more advice for the same size machine but going up market with a greater spend. He settles on a paricular model and thanks me for my time and expertise. Says he will be back.
Next day he is on the phone. " I have done some research and can get the same model elsewhere at £65 less, if you match it you can have the business"
Now, my price is fair anyway, that machine was already £100 off retail, and TBH another £65 would have made it barely above cost. What the other dealer, 30 miles away was playing at I have no idea.
So I declined to offer any further discount. He then started on that he really wanted to buy from me so what was my lowest price? I have always said that my first price is my best price, so once again I declined to shift and suggested that, as the other firm had been decent enough to offer a better price first time, the decent thing for him to do was buy it there, but thank you for giving us a chance.
So he says, OK if you do not want the business I will buy it elsewhere. Fair enough.
But then he says " you will get the service work as the other place is too far away", to which I replied, " The firm you buy it from deserves your loyalty and it should go back to them for service, especially whilst in warranty, so count me out"
So they got the business, based on my advice and time spent with the guy. He milked me for that advice and then used that info to go to others with a specific machine request.
I know I could have had the deal at his price, but I am a stubborn git and will not bow to what I see as a mild form of blackmail. I would sooner lose the deal.
As I did!