Wedding or stump grinding ?

[Haironyourchest]

Cry for help ? Denial ? Issues unsolved ? Last time I read this I skimmed over it due to a negativity sense from it, I took my time and read it and now I feel depressed, I'm quickly gonna think of something more fun.

 

It was a painful sense of negativity from it and I felt judged without justice

 

 

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The fact that you now feel depressed and, as you say, are "quickly going to think of something more fun" tells me that my observation was spot on - you are fleeing from yourself. Stefan you may be a tough guy, able to work like a Trojan night and day, but you are afraid of taking a deep long loom within your own soul. Instead of diving in the ocean, distracting yourself with more activity, try diving inside. It will not be a happy experience - it never is. How to do it I cannot say, everyone must find their own way. I really wasn't judging you, I was just suggesting that you are judging - and punishing - yourself, and looking for people to tell you that everything is fine.

[Stefan Palokangas]

The fact that you now feel depressed and, as you say, are "quickly going to think of something more fun" tells me that my observation was spot on - you are fleeing from yourself. Stefan you may be a tough guy, able to work like a Trojan night and day, but you are afraid of taking a deep long loom within your own soul. Instead of diving in the ocean, distracting yourself with more activity, try diving inside. It will not be a happy experience - it never is. How to do it I cannot say, everyone must find their own way. I really wasn't judging you, I was just suggesting that you are judging - and punishing - yourself, and looking for people to tell you that everything is fine.

 

 

Where is the positively ? Where is the joy ? I done the meditation and I'm at peace. Are you?

 

You talk utter rubbish now and just trying to figure out how to belittle me, but I know your kind quite well.

 

Find another target sir

 

 

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[Joe Newton]

No irony there.....My two girls are in bed and I have plenty of time with them thanks.

 

So it's support or shut up is it, bollocks to that he is wrong plain and simple.

 

Also why ask for support when he knows he's right.

 

 

I think you're bulling him Ian

[Ian Leach]

I think you're bulling him Ian

I'll get the violin out.

[TimberCutterDartmoor]

But he didn't ask for anyones opinion.

 

He asked for support.

 

If you feel you can't offer support, maybe do something else (like getting off the internet, and interacting with your family (oh, the irony)).

 

Support isn't always telling the person what they want to hear. Often, on the contrary.

[TimberCutterDartmoor]

Where is the positively ? Where is the joy ? I done the meditation and I'm at peace. Are you?

 

You talk utter rubbish now and just trying to figure out how to belittle me, but I know your kind quite well.

 

Find another target sir

 

 

Projection. Classic symptom...

[Tommy_B]

I think you're bulling him Ian

 

I can't stand Bulling. Thanks mate

[Joe Newton]

I can't stand Bulling. Thanks mate

 

 

Shut up Tommy. I think you need some independent advice.

[Stefan Palokangas]

Bright morning, ready for new exiting challenges ! Such a successful post this been, thanks for all replies [emoji3]

 

 

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[5 shires]

Bright morning, ready for new exiting challenges ! Such a successful post this been, thanks for all replies [emoji3]

 

 

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Piss poor if you ask me...only one good thing has come out of this post is I know who to contact if have a stump grinding job needs doing on Christmas Day.