What constitutes alcoholism?

[Graham]

Several people I know (all women) have said that my drinking habits are close to alcoholism!

 

So here they are: When I get back from work I look forward to a can of beer or a glass of wine. If I have beer then I'll have two cans or with wine about two, maybe three small glasses. I relax with it, cook my tea and then take the dog out for some training.

 

I don't drink in the day but because I 'look forward' to my evening drink then I'm borderline alcoholic! Am I? Are they right?

[Frankie Lawrence]

are you dependant on it? what would happen if you didnt have your evening drink?

[skyhuck]

I'm the same.

 

I think so long as you don't need a drink to relax, your fine.

 

I could live with out drink no problem, but I enjoy it so I have it.

[Graham]

are you dependant on it? what would happen if you didnt have your evening drink?

 

Nothing would happen. Sometimes I don't have a drink but I do enjoy it.

[Frankie Lawrence]

Then IMO no its not alcaholism

[hippytyre]

I get this from my girlfriend too and I only drink at the weekends. I look forward to a few beers because I can wind down and chill out. She's got me on a "no beer for two weeks" thing now.

Those women in your life may be nagging but it shows they care about you too.

[Stephen Blair]

7 nights a week, 365 days a year for how many years??

it does add up, if you are looking for a number, I think 5 units a day is the recomended maximum amount.

if it effects your life and others negatively then I would say it is a problem, if it's a couple of beers after work then you enjoy it mate, I am currently having a crabbies Ginger beer:)

[Graham]

Then IMO no its not alcaholism

 

That's what I thought. Now where did I put that can:001_smile:

[Goaty]

To the best of my knowledge. Alcohlism is an addiction or dependency of regular intake of alcohol. It could by 10ml daily, or lots only on a weekend. It is when it affects you mood/behaviour. when your deprived of it. You do not have to drink excessively or get drunk. Personally I would take heed and prove to yourself and your friends. By abstaining a couple of months. or another time period see what difference it makes. Its nice not to be beaten and prove your you dont need it. I know loads of people who deny but never prove it. You will feel good if you can prove it, but it is similar to giving up nicotine for some.

[Graham]

7 nights a week, 365 days a year for how many years??

it does add up, if you are looking for a number, I think 5 units a day is the recomended maximum amount.

if it effects your life and others negatively then I would say it is a problem, if it's a couple of beers after work then you enjoy it mate, I am currently having a crabbies Ginger beer:)

 

I've just had a can of weak cider, taking the dog down to the river and then doing a stir fry....can't wait. Enjoy your Crabbies.