would you be so kind ?

[jayman]

well mmm she aint ugly if i was single and met her in a bar ??? any way i agree her brothers dont want her for a reason which is why im staying on the sofa as she is in the spare room, i told mother hide the valuables and i am a light sleeper so see what happens !!!

[geoff]

Hope it all works out well for you,your mum,and the lass.

Let us know that all is well,and keep a close eye on the imediate welfare of those who you you know to need it at this time.

Good on you.

[robbo 110]

:thumbup1:good on you all for taking the time for this girl, the otherside of the coin is that she could be a victim here and her family is the problem??? just a thought..... have you a citizens advice near you at all?? or adult social services team?? glad to hear there is people like your family around, i really hope all ends well, keep us posted:001_smile:

[Mesterh]

well mmm she aint ugly if i was single and met her in a bar ??? any way i agree her brothers dont want her for a reason which is why im staying on the sofa as she is in the spare room, i told mother hide the valuables and i am a light sleeper so see what happens !!!

 

Thought as much when I read she was 20!

[jayman]

i dont normally worry but im quite well connected around here but no one seems to know anything about her , we have pointed her to all the local services as mentioned above, i will keep u posted , just surprised as no one has taken the time/effort to sort her out or even talk to her !

[Pete Mctree]

Good on your mother for caring.

I was genuinely homeless at one point in my life and through the kindness of a police officer lending me enough money to get back to a friendly town I got my life back on track. I paid him back and will be forever in his debt for helping me. However those weeks on the streets (about 7 I think, it was a long time ago) taught me that not everybody there is to be trusted, so along with my admiration , I wish you luck

[jayman]

thanks dude will keep u posted

[geoff]

Jayman,when things get back to normal,your mum deserves the best bunch of flowers you can find!

[jayman]

normally that would be the case but as shes a florist she picks out all the faults with other other florist and u might say "well a box of choc's" but she is always on a diet so what to get her ???

[Ian Leach]

Fair play to your mum for helping her i just hope it doesn't back fire and she genuiney wants help. This hits a raw nerve with me as people say there r places out there to help people in situations like this but it needs nice people like your mum to point them in the right direction. Yes there r shelters you can go to but they r very daunting for young people and you can easily get in with the drugs and the drink.

I was homeless for about 2mths sleeping rough, now and again would manage to get showers and stuff from various places. In the end managed to get a room with shared kitchen and bathroom that was through a place called glowfish, first week went well but in that place i saw things that most people wouldn't see in a life time and wouldn't wish on people to see (Put it this way my bedroom door was a solid fire door with 5mm thick metal sheeting on both sides). So off i went back on the streets for a few weeks i felt safer there TBH, me ended up plucking up the courage to get in contact with me dad and with his help im here today.

 

What im trying to say is this world needs more people like your mum as the System doesn't always work, it needs people to steer them in the right direction and not get passed from pillar to post.

It always the genuine people who slip through because there to busy concertrating on the arse holes of this world its the same for homeless, benifits etc etc .