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[Stephen Blair]

you have just had a rant matt, nothing more, what was the figure then??how much of the new jeep is yours, how much do you have to show for the last 12 months work. not excuses on health or how affluent the area is, and i think you will find the cairngorms is better than the west coast down my way. the point i am trying to make with you, and maybe on a public forum isnt the best place but you posted the thread and you have been having a good winge recently, so i will continue. it is for your own good, accepting there is a problem is the first step, you have been treating this job as a crusade, some kind of glory run, but the long and short of it is you are stressed out your head, out of your depth and its time to wake up and smell the roses, you are a friend so this is why i am saying this, you can try and convince yourself everything is ok, we have had these discussions many times before in the past, but you dont realise, what others think means squat diddly when your head goes on the pillow and you cant sleep with worry, cant think straight and live on your nerves. you have got yourself out of a rutt you were in a few years ago, you have got contracts and done loads of training, good on you. but when that little one turns up in a few months, your work problems are going to be ten fold if you dont sort them out.. forget driving about looking the part of a tree surgeon, you are going to be DAD, the most important job you are ever going to have, a lifelong contract. get a hold of your life and business, it took me to be 32.5k in overdraft before i woke up mate, we wont drag this on any longer on here, as only we know what i am talking about....:001_smile:but let me ask you one thing, what do you want written on your gravestone when you pass away..

[Highland Forestry]

you have just had a rant matt, nothing more, what was the figure then??how much of the new jeep is yours, how much do you have to show for the last 12 months work. not excuses on health or how affluent the area is, and i think you will find the cairngorms is better than the west coast down my way. the point i am trying to make with you, and maybe on a public forum isnt the best place but you posted the thread and you have been having a good winge recently, so i will continue. it is for your own good, accepting there is a problem is the first step, you have been treating this job as a crusade, some kind of glory run, but the long and short of it is you are stressed out your head, out of your depth and its time to wake up and smell the roses, you are a friend so this is why i am saying this, you can try and convince yourself everything is ok, we have had these discussions many times before in the past, but you dont realise, what others think means squat diddly when your head goes on the pillow and you cant sleep with worry, cant think straight and live on your nerves. you have got yourself out of a rutt you were in a few years ago, you have got contracts and done loads of training, good on you. but when that little one turns up in a few months, your work problems are going to be ten fold if you dont sort them out.. forget driving about looking the part of a tree surgeon, you are going to be DAD, the most important job you are ever going to have, a lifelong contract. get a hold of your life and business, it took me to be 32.5k in overdraft before i woke up mate, we wont drag this on any longer on here, as only we know what i am talking about....:001_smile:but let me ask you one thing, what do you want written on your gravestone when you pass away..

 

 

Point taken.... You have a PM